Having bought this book after friends pointed out I did everything for everyone I have to say it was a bit of a "Life Changer" What I hadn't realised before reading this book, that by being a giver all the time I wasn't acting at my full potential, not only was I behaving in a way that didn't really help others but I was neglecting and cheapening my own self worth. I do not really want to give away any spoilers in the book, but Olga Levancuka,the author and also known as The Skinny Rich Coach certainly changed my life for the better, her unique style of writing and uncanny accurate views on life are refreshing and I have to say a huge thank you for putting me on the path of a better self. If there is one book you need to read then it is "How to be Selfish (And other uncomfortable advice" Now that I know How To Be Selfish I am more giving. Thank you O.x