Rude Staff, more corporate than Family Friendly

So there I was so excited to be getting married in Fakiraki, I had chosen Paradise Mare as it had 5 stars on websites and fantastic reviews. We arrived 25th September (mind you sites had said Mid October is end of season) I was so excited to be staying in the village and having choice of restraints and swimming pools, and having all my famil (11 of us) staying in the same hotel.
Well when we arrived I was fuming, I had been told we wasn't allowed to wear shorts to dinner well none of the websites not even the hotel website told us this! So we couldn't go for dinner untill 9pm in the evening (15mins before the restaurant closed).
All was ok after that, amazin restaurants, good food, etc. UNTILL my wedding day!! All the restaurants and Snack bars closed 1st of October ! Leaving only the main hotel bar and 1 restaurant open (5-10min walk from village).
400 new guests were arriving that day for a conference, on 2nd October we all went for dinner and we couldn't get any where to sit for dinner or in the bar, all the staff were rude and didn't care about their holiday guests just the people on the conference.
What annoyed me the most was we were getting use of half the services but paying full price for October (same price as September when all the facilities are open)
Very disappointed and would defo not come back, partly ruined my wedding/honeymoon in Greece.