Steven Carter, Julia Sokol, Men Who Can't Love

This is a fantastic book! It helped me a great deal to overcome the hurt I felt after being in a relationship with a commitment phobic man. It helped me realize that I didn't need to blame myself anymore, and it most importantly helped me to not go back to him. I absolute MUST read!

Wow! This book is a must read for all women to read. You will learn how to recognize the signs of commitment phobic behavior that will enable you to avoid a lot of pain, or it will explain what you have experienced or what you have already experienced. It will finally explain all the mysterious behavior that that you were so puzzled about. It should be noted, however, that women are capable of being commitment phobic as well as men. This factor is not mentioned in this book.

Fantastic book i have had it for a while on my shelf and i grab it out last week and started reading it. I couldn't put it down, it described the man who i have been involved in to a "t", the unreasonable illogical actions or words that he used to avoid commitment of any kind. This book has helped me greatly.

I accidentally found this book after a two year relationship ended with an eight week marriage. I had no idea what had happened and I was in shock until I read this book. The authors were able to unmask the subtly manipulative behavior of these kind of people and firmly identify what to watch out for in the future. This book helped me absorb what had happened and to understand that I could have avoided it if I had been more aware of meeting my own needs. It also helped to understand, once again, that it's critically important to focus on the actions of an individual and not the words or excuses because these types will not take responsibility for their destructive actions.