Oh, this book is just great. It's a showdown It's like the book with the most beautiful advices. It expresses very clearly how to act like a lady and if you are strong enough, if you want to face your own mistakes. This wonderful book is for you It returned mi ex back again to me

This book is AMAZING! Seriously, I'm not one for reading self-help relationship manuals and have scoffed at the very notion in the past, but a good pal recommended I read this in a bid to convince me my 'nice girl' tendencies were getting in the way of a beautiful relationship with my man. Having finished the book, I have now done a complete 180 in terms of how I view myself and my relationship, I thought the 'nice, mild-mannered, always eager to please girl' was what every guy wanted... WRONG! This book, which I did in fact read from cover to cover, has revealed some very interesting opinions from men on what men actually want and has potentially changed my life and my attitude for the better. Written in a humerous and friendly way, I am proud to stand tall (as tall as a 5ft2" human being can stand) and announce to one and all, I am a wonderful beautiful B.I.T.C.H!

I just finished reading Why Men Love Bitches, and my relationsho mirrored that which was described in this book. I am the nice girl trying too hard to constantly please everyone and feeling guilty if even one person made a comment. I was doing the impossible, attempting to please everyone. The only problemwas I forgot to please myself.
I have been in and on and off relationship. Hot and cold so to speak. I began using some ideas from this book and I admit at first I didn't think it would work. But! Voila! He asked me today if there was something different about me. He said I seem more aloof, but in a goof way. I pretended I had no idea what he was talking about. Surprisingly, it worked! Our relationship had gotten stale, and now hes begging to see me.
I think it would be silly for anyone yo think this will work with every man, people are different with different backrounds and will respond differently. Its human nature. But, this book has helped me.greatly and.for once I feel a new respect for myself I haven't felt in a long time. Smewhere along the line, I forgot how to love myself, and that is what I believe is the message that is most important coming from Sherry Argov's book.

Sherry Argov, Why Men Love Bitches: From Doormat to Dreamgirl - A Woman's Guide to Holding Her Own in a Relationship, in a nutshell: Stop being the traditional nice girl, i.e., bending over backwards for a man, ' jumping through hoops '. You come first, him second, fitting him into your life when it ' s feasible for you; Using your womanly guile to attract and keep him. Being a Bitch means never being mean to a man, she ' s ultra feminine. She simply shows, for the most part, rather than tells, or ' spilling her guts ' as to how she expect to be treated with respect. Simply, it ' s about her, ALWAYS. It ' s about being unobtainable and keeping that personal mystery about yourself that keeps a man chasing you for years, never catching you, yet loving the chase. Having that ' Je ne sais quois 'She goes into different scenarios and stories of how this mystery is displayed. Knowing when to flatter a man instead of nagging him to get what you want or need done, yet never behaving as if you can do everything yourself, or as she says,'you ' ll be stuck doing every thing '. Moving to the beat of your own drum and ' driving your train effortlessly ', being independent of him, ' owning your own pink slip ' financially. In the sequel, she gives scenarios for getting him to marry you and saying and acting in the complete opposite way of a woman who ' s looking to get married. i.e., how to never mention marriage or kids, unless you ' re not interested in him and want to scare him away to begin with ; Never moving in with a man unless you have a ring and a date set beforehand. ' Men listen to no contact with them, not nagging words ', when you ' re tired of asking for what you want. She goes on to list different scenarios of how men may behave and how a woman should react to this pattern of behavior. Scenarios like, if he takes a few hours to call you, take a few hours to call him back, how men will test you with bad behavior to ' see how you scrap ', if you can hold your own emotionally. And like, if a man shows that he ' s crule 'get out. Game Over. In essence, she gives a common sense approach on how any woman should handle herself without losing herself , keeping your own sense of ' self ', applying her techniques to counter act how men may behave towards her at any given time from the beginning of the relationship to the point of him ' fence sitting ' as to if he wants to be in a relationship with you and ultimately stating what you need and if he isn ' t prepared to give it, you ' re out the door and aren ' t afraid to let the words'See ya later ' roll of your tongue at any time.

I love her approach to it all.

OMG! This stuff works! I completed "Why Men Love Bitches: From Doormat to Dreamgirl - A Woman's Guide to Holding Her Own in a Relationship" and immediately started applying the techniques to my relationship.. within 3 days.. He is calling me..emailing me.. telling me he loves me..he misses me... etc Hmmm... I was amazed! I have always been the NICE girl and have always been taken for granted ! After seeing all this in action..NO MORE!!! Only bad point---- That I am 46 and just now found this book! This should be a training manual - for all women!

I really loved Sherry Argov, Why Men Love Bitches: From Doormat to Dreamgirl - A Woman's Guide to Holding Her Own in a Relationship. Now I look for all the time in book store Serry's books.

Very very precise analyse of the situation, not boring at all, great sense of humor, you'll enjoy it. Absolutely recommendable...I learned a lot of new things. One has to consider the fact that this is said by a 40 years old beautiful female with a lot of experience!

Excellent advice that really works. Wonderful book. Very funny and real.

Seriously it's working, you just have to be very strong sometimes but that's incredible. All the men are same. Follow this book.

I highly recommend all the good strong ladies to read this book. It's like a ladies manual to a fun life! To all you Too-nice women who just want a good guy, follow these rules in this book.

I keep informing my friends they also should read this book.

I need to master it, and once i have done it i hope i will be a love my self even more...

A great book for women! This book is easy to read, straight to the point, funny, witty, and, in a way, inspirational, that is!