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Mr Mystery
Posts: 5
From: Mysterio Land
5 Apr 2004 11:46 AM
Hi
In my old job I met a girl, she was another member of staff and we instantly hit it off. We have known each other for the past year and a half and have become extremely close - but just as friends. I have realy fallen for her and have been desperate to tell her how I feel but i am petrified that it might ruin what we already have, can anyone give me some advice or let me know if they have been in the same situation. 
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MuddiedUp
Posts: 11
5 Apr 2004 3:48 PM
Personally, if it were me, and you were my friend who declared undying love it would make me uncomfortable and embarassed if it wasn't reciprocated. You have to make certain that there's at least a chance she feels the same about you before you open your mouth because otherwise you're likely to ruin a very good friendship.
My advice is to sound her out a bit. Go to the pub, have a few drinks and then start talking about your love life. See how she reacts. And if she starts thinking of friends of hers she can set you up with, she's NOT interested. And if she changes the subject, she's NOT interested. And, if she avoids making eye contact and sounds nervous, she's probably not interested.
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Lee123
Posts: 8
From: Copley
8 Apr 2004 5:06 PM
Hi Mistry Man, Im in the same situation!, I'v done all the "Im interested" gestures - you know brushing up against her really close, staring longingly into her eyes, having a cheeky squeeze of her bum when I walk past. Im so frustrated I could explode!. Have you got any tips for me muddied up? 
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MuddiedUp
Posts: 11
13 Apr 2004 3:01 PM
You grabbed her bum?! You're lucky you didn't get a big slap across the face!
What makes men think that touching women's bums is ok? WE DO NOT FIND IT FUNNY!!!
If I were you, I'd try the personals in the Daily Sport - or maybe your local Roxy's nightclub because it sounds like you need an entirely different class of woman to the one you are pursuing.
It really helps if you don't aim too high you know.
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broonspants
Posts: 12
From: Scotland
11 Aug 2006 3:05 PM
woo hoo! girl power! we dont like having our bums touched unless it is in the bedroom and you have been invited, even then sometimes its not nice!
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Darky
Posts: 266
From: Bristol, UK
29 Sep 2006 9:41 PM
They say never mix work and pleasure. But then again, go for it. What's the worst that could happen? You make a twit of yourself. You could end up with the person of your dreams!
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pezzo
Posts: 5
From: Midlands
3 Oct 2006 11:30 PM
you know when youve found a good partner when they dont slap you when you pick your nose
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FlyGuy
Posts: 515
From: Coatzacoalcos
15 Apr 2008 12:17 PM
Now this be a tough one, do you say something or not, FlyGuy recalls a time when he was in a similar situation when he didn't say nothing to this fine female that he be like a colleague of u know. Now years later down the line he bumped into this girl who had since gone like their seperate ways, after a drink she said like how much she had like a crush on FlyGuy at that time, despite FlyGuy being in a relationship he liked 'entertained' this female for a time on like the side u know, ssssshhh, the Q,T, word, but I can't help thinking that Fly should have said something at the time, dog! FlyGuy's yo tell that someone that you like them, you can repair any damage you do by blaming it on like the Blue Wicked's, respect.
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FlyGuy
Posts: 515
From: Coatzacoalcos
15 Apr 2008 12:19 PM
Can eyes be helping anyone else with any personal problems, it's all cool.
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