Written on: 18/03/2013
Oh, this book is just great. It's a showdown It's like the book with the most beautiful advices. It expresses very clearly how to act like a lady and if you are strong enough, if you want to face your own mistakes. This wonderful book is for you It returned mi ex back again to me (read more)
Written on: 09/05/2012
This book is AMAZING! Seriously, I'm not one for reading self-help relationship manuals and have scoffed at the very notion in the past, but a good pal recommended I read this in a bid to convince me my 'nice girl' tendencies were getting in the way of a beautiful relationship with my man. Having finished the book, I have now done a complete 180 in terms of how I view myself and my relationship, I thought the 'nice, mild-mannered, always eager to please girl' was what every guy wanted...... (read more)
Written on: 07/01/2011
I just finished reading Why Men Love Bitches, and my relationsho mirrored that which was described in this book. I am the nice girl trying too hard to constantly please everyone and feeling guilty if even one person made a comment. I was doing the impossible, attempting to please everyone. The only problemwas I forgot to please myself.
I have been in and on and off relationship. Hot and cold so to speak. I began using some ideas from this book and I admit at first I didn't think it would...
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Written on: 12/07/2010
I'm 23 and have been at school 10 hours away from the girl i love for the past 3 months. I'm the nice guy that tries to do all the right things. I've bought her roses, a necklace, earings, taken her out to dinner, sent her random love letters, planned an elaborate valentine's day, everything that girls always tell me they want. I told her i needed to go back to school to get a career to support our future family and she was upset obviously because i would be away from her. Things were a... (read more)
Written on: 09/07/2011
1.i agree with u 100% 2. i respect u for all the effort u put in ur relationship including actually reading the book 3. Ur gf is not mature enough for marriage.
Written on: 17/08/2011
A friend has been recommending this book to me but after reading your post I'm even more assured that I don't need to read it. I think that you are absolutely right when you say, \"I would only recommend this book to women who feel like they always end up with guys who don't appreciate them and take them for granted, are lazy, and don't put in an effort in the relationship.\" I have been in a loving relationship with a man your age and with the qualities you've listed and I truly think that it is your girlfriend's loss if she is more inclined to follow what someone else tells her in a book. However, I do think that this is also great example to illustrate how some readers, like your girlfriend, may be missing the author's point and taking it too far. I don't think the author can be blamed if a woman gives up her own judgement entirely.
Written on: 17/08/2011
A friend has been recommending this book to me but after reading your post I'm even more assured that I don't need to read it. I think that you are absolutely right when you say, "I would only recommend this book to women who feel like they always end up with guys who don't appreciate them and take them for granted, are lazy, and don't put in an effort in the relationship." I have been in a loving relationship with a man your age and with the qualities you've listed and I truly think that it is your girlfriend's loss if she is more inclined to follow what someone else tells her in a book. However, I do think that this is also great example to illustrate how some readers, like your girlfriend, may be missing the author's point and taking it too far. I don't think the author can be blamed if a woman gives up her own judgement entirely.
Written on: 25/09/2009
Why Men Love Bitches - It's a good book but its superficial and she repeats the same thing over and over agian. And the other thing that got me questioning myself abouth the book was why in the world does she tell you to be independent and then tells you what to do so he will like you. Its good for some relashionships but not all. the other thing she only refers to one of the many types of man that there are in these world so remember one thing take the positive things about the book but... (read more)
Written on: 15/07/2009
Why Men Love Bitches only made me laugh. I bought the book because I was curious to know why it is so successful among ladies. (I'm a girl). And as I began to read the first chapter, the first thing that reached my mind is - "WTF? Is it for real?"
I really wonder, if the author of this book claims she knows "all the secrets of men", why SHE isn't married? .... Doesn't it sound a bit fishy?
This book only made me understand how this Sherry is SO full of herself, how she makes women and men in...
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Written on: 02/06/2009 by AbercrombieBarbie (1 review written)
I started reading Sherry's "Why Men Love Bitches" just yesterday, and I have already seen an improvement in the behavior of my man! As if I had flipped a light switch that said "sex appeal", he started eating out of my hand: without even knowing it! Not only did it start to turn him on, I wanted HIM even more as well. By simply changing my attitude about what I want out of the relationship, I was able to see more clearly how I should think and act myself.
Instead of dwelling and worrying...
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Written on: 20/04/2009 by akeith (1 review written)
Just loved Why Men Love Bitches: From Doormat to Dreamgirl - A Woman's Guide to Holding Her Own in a Relationship. Must have read 20 times. Gave to friends to read. (read more)
Written on: 17/04/2009
Sherry Argov, Why Men Love Bitches: From Doormat to Dreamgirl - A Woman's Guide to Holding Her Own in a Relationship, in a nutshell: Stop being the traditional nice girl, i.e., bending over backwards for a man, ' jumping through hoops '. You come first, him second, fitting him into your life when it ' s feasible for you; Using your womanly guile to attract and keep him. Being a Bitch means never being mean to a man, she ' s ultra feminine. She simply shows, for the most part, rather than... (read more)
Written on: 05/04/2009 by nicola cummings
I found this book after I discovered my boyfriend was a cocaine addict, I was really upset and shocked, and even though this book was not specific to my situation I beleive it saved me a lot of extra heart ache. Sherry Argov, "Why Men Love Bitches: From Doormat to Dreamgirl - A Woman's Guide to Holding Her Own in a Relationship" is clearly a very good book, I think all girls should be taught these things. I feel more in control of my feelings and actions and more sure of myself, I agree... (read more)
Written on: 13/03/2009
OMG! This stuff works! I completed "Why Men Love Bitches: From Doormat to Dreamgirl - A Woman's Guide to Holding Her Own in a Relationship" and immediately started applying the techniques to my relationship.. within 3 days.. He is calling me..emailing me.. telling me he loves me..he misses me... etc Hmmm... I was amazed! I have always been the NICE girl and have always been taken for granted ! After seeing all this in action..NO MORE!!! Only bad point---- That I am 46 and just now found... (read more)
Written on: 15/01/2009
I really loved Sherry Argov, Why Men Love Bitches: From Doormat to Dreamgirl - A Woman's Guide to Holding Her Own in a Relationship. Now I look for all the time in book store Serry's books. (read more)
Written on: 28/10/2008
Very very precise analyse of the situation, not boring at all, great sense of humor, you'll enjoy it. Absolutely recommendable...I learned a lot of new things. One has to consider the fact that this is said by a 40 years old beautiful female with a lot of experience! (read more)
Written on: 10/10/2008 by larna
It really really works! It's easy to understand, with key points, and it's funny girls. I love this book, i'd never grow tired of reading this. A must have for all women, I have 100's of books but this is all you need. Loved it, loved it, every women and girl should own this. (read more)
Written on: 27/09/2008
Excellent advice that really works. Wonderful book. Very funny and real. (read more)
Written on: 03/09/2008
I just wish I had read this book before I met my husband! The whole dynamic of our relationship would be so different. Slowly working on changing it though. Better late than never! (read more)
Written on: 24/07/2008
Seriously it's working, you just have to be very strong sometimes but that's incredible. All the men are same. Follow this book. (read more)
Written on: 02/07/2008
I highly recommend all the good strong ladies to read this book. It's like a ladies manual to a fun life! To all you Too-nice women who just want a good guy, follow these rules in this book. (read more)
Written on: 25/06/2008
Umm...while the message isn't necessarily "bad", it is weakly thought out. She refers to "men" and "human nature" but doesn't really get into actually developing what the hell she means. Also, the premise of the book is basically how to get "men" to like you. And then it proceeds to undermine itself with its advice, basically, don't show them you care. It is pretty simple minded, sort of like the advice a lot of guys get about girls in the high school locker room - from people who really... (read more)
Written on: 25/03/2009
I find it hilarious that the one negative review of this book came from a guy. Of course you don't like it, it's too true! I haven't even finished reading this book and have already started applying some of the principles and it works like a charm. Instantaneously. Same day buddy. It's not about cloak and dagger, it's about respecting yourself, which is something that women are taught not to do. I found the one male review VERY helpful. The fact that the dude hated it is more than enough endorsement for me.
Written on: 11/06/2008 by mizzmindi
For any women out there that have been pegged as a "nice girl" this book is for you. I read this book and I saw myself in so many of the examples.... the book is dead on. A good read, take it serious. (read more)
Written on: 07/05/2008
I keep informing my friends they also should read this book.
I need to master it, and once i have done it i hope i will be a love my self even more...
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Written on: 26/03/2008
A great book for women! This book is easy to read, straight to the point, funny, witty, and, in a way, inspirational, that is! (read more)
Written on: 25/03/2008 by valerielenny (1 review written)
Last week, I bought Why Men Mary Bitches", what Sherry's wrote inside is true. It really motivated me. Hope my ex and me will back together. I recommended this book to my cousins and friends too. (read more)
Written on: 21/03/2008 by tastntime
Why Men Love Bitches: From Doormat to Dreamgirl - A Woman's Guide to Holding Her Own in a Relationship is by far the best book ive read especially when it comes to advice (read more)
Written on: 20/02/2008 by fashionseazon (1 review written)
I have been with my boy friend for two years now. He was really caring and loving in the first year of our relationship, then he began to relax and not care that much. Although I used to be a real bitch (as the one Sherry wrote about), a real man - magnet, when he backed off a bit, I got scared and tried my hardest to keep him. That was a mistake. He backed off even further.
We came to the point that we did not see each other most of the times as he was always away, and I was chasing him....
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Written on: 07/07/2008
Your comment was nice reading...i've followed some of the advice, but not the full book...and I have both books, so you just motivated me to read the whole book and start from scratch...thanks
Written on: 04/02/2008 by Glamchick
I loved every aspect of this book. This book is every woman's guide to how to keep a man yet stay true to herself. Self- respect is the key. SHOULD BE A GUIDE TO ALL YOUNG WOMEN. (read more)
Written on: 27/09/2007 by kui (1 review written)
I read both books "Why Men Love Bitches" and "Why Men Marry Bitches". I am lucky in that I have never been a doormat. I was brought up by a strong type A mother and a father who supported her 100%. So I had good role model in parents. But sometimes we forget some things when we want relationships to work so much especially if you want more from it than the other person does. Both books are good reminders and "go-back-to" books when one is forgetting their worth. The books are straightforward... (read more)
Written on: 26/06/2007 by amworthy
I know it works. I've learned about men and what they are looking for. Now, I am more in control of my emotion. I am more confident as a woman after I read this book. I worth a lot. Me first before you. (read more)
Written on: 28/11/2006 by zenchick
This is the best book ever! I recommend it to all my friends who are having man troubles.
Why Men Love Bitches: From Doormat to Dreamgirl - A Woman's Guide to Holding Her Own in a Relationship by Sherry Argov is what I call a bible.
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Written on: 13/06/2006 by scalifornia
In reading Why Men Love Bitches, I was able to learn everything my mother never taught me about boys. I feel like I have an older sister to talk to now. Reading this book made me realize that I don't have to put up with anything. Stand your ground and don't be a doormat girls. Don't be afraid to be traditional either. I think that EVERY girl should read this book and I have told my friends all about Sherry Argov, this girl is my role model whom I admire so much for demanding the respect... (read more)
Written on: 07/04/2007
Oh my God!!! A Woman's Guide to Holding Her Own in a Relationship is an amazing book!!!!
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<br/>At first I put into action some of the things that Sherry Argov suggests in the book, and I actually felt a little guilty - the result, brilliant! Changing the way you portray yourself, feel about yourself and the all important task of ensuring you are happy with or without him, are just some of the things Sherry talks about. Please give this a read girls. It will change your relationship!
Written on: 13/06/2006 by panther78
Why Men Love Bitches: From Doormat to Dreamgirl - A Woman's Guide to Holding Her Own in a Relationship changed my life! I had recently gone through a bad break-up and got this book. I instantly started applying the things I learned to my behavior and "poof" the man who left me couldn't live without me. He now calls me constantly and misses me when he can't be with me, a complete turn around! Thank you Sherry Argov for writing this book!!! (read more)
Written on: 16/02/2005 by littlemissdrunk (44 reviews written)
Sherry Argov, Why Men Love Bitches: From Doormat to Dreamgirl - A Woman's Guide to Holding Her Own in a Relationship, I am hopeless when it comes to men! I tend to fall in love at the drop of a hat and generally scare them off by being a little too suffocating! This book will basically turn your life around, it will stop you from acting out the nicy nice, doormat routine, and allow you to sit back, relax and enjoy yourself when it comes to relationships. A very funny read but will help you... (read more)
Written on: 01/03/2006
I was told about this book by a friend, i have read the book twice and recommended to more than 10 people all of whom went out and brought it. I feel that all young girls who start secondary school should be given this book to read, Its a bible. I would recommend this book to anyone and just remember hide it from the men.
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Written on: 09/04/2011
Well, I would marry you in a heartbeat! My boyfriend should take a page out of your book on how to treat his girlfriend the way she should be treated... Too bad he's a ****.