Dream In Code www.dreamincode.net Review

www.dreamincode.net - I felt as though I couldn't get my question answered unless I showed a whole lot of work. Even when I couldn't get started, they told me to read the rules and show them my source code (Which I had no idea of how to get)
It seemed I could not make more that 5 posts without other posters calling me an idiot or making fun of me.
When I submitted a tutorial or snippet, it took them a month to do anything with it.
I feel as though people who shouldn't get promoted get higher positions, and the people that actually do something are apparently ignored.