Written on: 12/03/2011
If you are a serious one looking for some special date in this website you'll be most likely disappointed. The site is populated by real persons but, 95% of them are just shallow time wasters waiting for an email full of compliments to satisfy their ego or they are just waiting for a man/girl over their possibilities. Like in real society. I do not exclude most of women/men in the site aren't really singles. Then it comes what it is considered the great idea of this website: the description of your friend. That is silly instead : each description is the same. Each girl is presented as intelligent, thoughtful, with great sense of humor, best in the world etc etc. The descriptions aren't realistic. If you feel you are good-looking and have a matching on interests/activities with these girls and write to them you'll expect some reasonable reply. No! It won't happen in 95% of cases! Most of them don't pay so can't read your email! In any case they won't even click the free 'no thanks' button to generate an automatic response to your email, despite their boundless intelligence. You'll hardly get thoughtful or funny replies as most of the girls have not really these qualities. They are just advertising themselves and waiting for compliments or for George Clooney.
In the end your only chances are either to write hundredths of emails to every single girl or to wait a very long time for a serious one. So, if you don't want to lose your self-esteem please do not subscribe to this website. Go out and look for people face to face.
But what about the good reviews of this site? Obviously they've been written mostly by the time wasters of the site: they receive emails, winks by other users and they are happy. So, form their point of view, the site works!
A plain and simple example: I wrote kind, funny or introspective emails even to horrid girls that could just dream of a boy like me. They just read and didn't reply. Not a single intelligent word, whatever it might be. Pointless. No, better: useless!