written by on 04/04/2016
I decided to go on pof after I left match.com ( only on that one for a month) my friends were on it and it sounded like a lot of fun.just to let you know my profile was good with great pictures ( lots of natural smiles) I received hundreds of e mails and meet me's so I didn't answer them all but spoke to a few at a time as I was getting to know people and how it all worked.i really upset one man as I didn't reply to him to the next day and another man wrote me a long essay telling me off as he didn't want to be in a queue of men and that I wasn't revealing that much about myself to him ,, I've been on a few dates with some men I chatted to for a few days then we spoke on the phone.one was like an interview. Another one was very boring.Another was like dating a hungry tiger who looked at me as if I was a piece of steak, he also couldn't keep his eyes off the other girls in the restaurant.I would say to people at least try pof but I know I have been lied to so many times by at least two men I ended up in a relationship with.One states he was an occasional smoker when infact he was a chain smoker who lived with his mum. I couldn't kiss him as his mouth was bitter tasting. Another man was a serial dater who was very entertaining but he told new users he messaged that he didn't message many women so they must be special..I've dated a man who lied and wasn't very truthful and a few guys have not left me alone and keep changing their name on the site for some reason .Sadly the site has put me off men as the ones I have spoken to are needy desperate insecure mummy's boys who live with their parents still ,! Some of their profiles say " I am not your meal ticket " " cougerprey" " I'm sick of selling myself to undeserving women" " no game players or married types please" so the ones who say these things have had some dodgy experiences too. But buyer beware it's so easy to lie,deceive and exploit on a dating site and you may end up dating someone capable of domestic abuse too. ?!? I still feel guilty that I didn't read all the messages I got and then I think of all the twenty or thirty something's just wanting a lame hookup but the biggest issue I have is you are probably one of many the person is talking to. You are on a list. You are just a number on their phone or on a tally But for some people it works Good luck caters