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“ Awful treatment!”

written by Lailah255 on 18/08/2015

i used this site on and off for a couple of years. Merciless bullying in the rooms which have become noticeably quieter and quieter with only regulars inhabiting them. Newcomers are mostly taunted into reacting badly and then banned by moderators who are clearly friends with the perpetrators.
Moderators also appear to report new female profiles a lot as scammers meaning they cannot then chat in the rooms. This happens especially with attractive females. The dating sites administrative department and management do nothing to stop any of it. It is quite clear that the moderators are running the show, not the owners of the site with a select few favourites who rule the rooms.
I rarely use the rooms now, preferring to chat in private but the goings on in the rooms is very alarming. The regulars  all appear to know each other and regularly bully those who are new or who do not fit the click.
Reports to the site do nothing. I have been horrified at what i have witnessed from these people, even more horrified at the cms joining in when they are supposedly there to ensure protection of chatters.
I am surprised this site has not been investigated as it clearly breaks its own terms and conditions regularly.
i have spoken in the rooms in the past and there are also a lot of scammers according to many of the male chatters withe many of them actually being scammed for credit card details.
There are many dating sites out there although not many with chat facilities but i would not recommend this site at all for the chat rooms unless you are extremely tough skinned and can stand to have abuse hurled at you or are able to stomach it hurled at other people.